Dialog in der Bibliothek: Wie Psychotherapie aus der Tabu-Zone geholt werden kann
Psychotherapie ist kein Tabu mehr – könnte man meinen. Trotzdem ist darüber wenig bekannt. Das Format „Into Therapy“ will daran etwas ändern.
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